Lakshya ko har hal mai pana ha

Namskar Dosto mai yuvin Saini ek bar phir ap ka savagat krta hu.ap sabhi ne apni life ke bare mai kuch na kuch jror socha hoga, kuch plan kiya hoga.koi goal jror socha hoga.

Kuch bhi, kya ap bhi kuch krna chte hai zindgi me ya phir u hi zindgi gujar dena cahte hai.

Lakshya yani goal kya hota hai.


Lakshy ko hr koi pana chahta  hai . .Lakshya ko har hal me pana hai poem read krne ke liye uper blue line pe click kre . ye koi badi baat nahi hai , ap sabhi ka koi na koi goal jror hoga . koi manzil ya mukam jrur  hogi . kya ap ka koi goal ha bhi ?

Kehte hai humara janam successful hone ke liye hua hai. Mai ye baat bachpan se sunte aya hu.
Par kabhi socha hai ki hum successful kyo nahi ho pate . ?!!?

Kyo hum apne lakshya se dur or dur chle jate hai. Is ke kai karan ho skte hai . jaise :-

Family responsibilty:  dosto Socho agar 

humara janam kisi garib family me hua hai. Tho phir apko bhi parivar ki Jo help hoti hai .
For example: finicial help WO krni hogi.

Finical problems : kisi ka sapna ho actor

, dancing ya doctor banne ka ,par jeb mai paise na ho tho ye sapna action mai nahi badla ja skta. Ye krna asambhav bhi nahi hai , par kahi na kahi muskil jror hai.

Fear : hum mai se adhe se jayada log isi 

baat ka sikar hote hai . WO apne dil ki kabhi sunte hi nahi . bas apne ap me ye hi sochte rehte hai ki agar Maine ASA kiya tho kya hoga. Log kya khege.

   Yaad rakhiye : sabse bda rog ,
                              Kya khege log .

Aur bhi bhut se karan hai par mai jayada briefly nahi jaoga. 

Tho ab kre to kya kre !?? Jeb mai paise nahi hai . parivar ki jimedariya sar pr aa gi hai. Kahi koi rasta nazar nahi aa RHA. 

Tho kya hua!! Aree zindgi thodi na kahtam ho gyi. Hath- par sahi slamat hai. Bagwan ne itni power di hai. Wahi power jiska istemal bs negative cheeze sochne mai krte ho , power of thinking . aree is ka istemal kro . 

Log aksar kehte hai ki sochne se kya fark padega?? Dosto sochne se farak padta hai ,bhut farak padta hai. Ap me koi farak pade na pade par ap ke lakshya mai jror farak padta hai. Ap niche diye gye kuch step use kijiye:-

Asan hai :  mai apse ek swal puchna 

chahuga ki kya is duniya mai kuch muskil hai?? Iska sidha sa ek hi jwab hai,,bhut kuch muskil hai, bhut zayada muskil hai . par use muskil bnata kon hai , hum log.

Sara sal padai nahi ki aur exam ke dino me keh diya Yarr paper bhut muskil tha.
Goal achieve nahi hua , keh diya yeh achive KR pana muskil tha.

Hum muskilo se ghire pade hai. Mujhe ek bhut bade admi ki 2 lines yaad aa rhi hai.

Is duniya me.....na tho kuch muskil hota hai aur na hi kuch asan hota hai. Sara khel manne ka ha. Jo manta hai ki muskil hai , uske liye sachmuch muskil hai aur Jo manta hai asan hai , uske liye sabkuch asan hai.

Ziddi bno :   ek zid pal lo.,par WO ashi               ho. Apne target ko pane ke liye itne ziddi bno , bas yahi socho ki mujhe ye pana  hai. Mujhe har hal mai ise pana hai ,mai ise pa KR hi rhuga.

Dokha mat do :  target ko achieve krne            kai liye kisi aur ko, apne ap ko, apne parents ko,anybody else. kisi ko bhi dokha mat dena. Kyo ki dosto character se badi is duniya mai koi cheez nahi.

Sahi disha mai mehnat :  apka lakshya     chahe Jo bhi ho , use  ashe se analysis KR le ki WO sahi disha ki aur hai phir hi ageh bade.

Wahi kam kro jis ke liye dil se awag nikle ::  is duniya mai bhut kam hai. 
       Kam karne walo ki bhi koi kami nahi hai. Par ap WO krna Jo apka dil khe . Jo apke andhar se awag nikle.

Bahri motivation se kam mat lo :: dosto 

bahri motivation se kam mat Lena .kisi bhi business ya nokri  mai paise Ki lalach me mat chle Jana. Kisi ke kehne par ap excited ho jate ho ,wha chle jate ho . us se hota kya hai ki ap 100% us kam ko nahi de pate. 

Kyo nahi de pate 100% ?!? Kyoki us kam ke liye ap ke andhar se awag nahi aai., sirf kisi ke kehne par WO kam krne lge.

Risto se badh KR kuch nahi : mai aksar 

apne dosto se risteydaro se puchta hu ki ap ke liye kya important ho skta hai. ?!! Apka target ya ristay .!?

Aksar logo ka ek hi jwab hota hai ki apka target , kyoki WO hi apko paisa deta hai. Ristay tho baad mai bhi nibaye ja sakte hai.  

Par mera manna hai ki apke relations jayada important hai . jra Socho ap kuch ban bhi gye tho apka main motive kya hoga, maa-baap ko , bahi-behan ko sukh dena, paise se khusiya kahridna.
Par dosto agar ap ka koi nazdiki kisi muskil mai fasa ho .usko apki jrort hai .
Par ap kehte ho ki bahi mai nahi aa sakta , mai apne goal ko achieve krne mai busy hu.
Ap ke karibi ka WO last din hai ,shyad phir WO kabhi na mile . tab ap kya kroge . !!? apne success pane ke chakar mai uljeh rahoge ya apna sara kam chohd KR , besak apka  koi finacily nuksan bhi ho, ap uski madad kroge !!?

Ye fasla mai ap par chodta hu.

Last mai bs itna hi kehna chahuga ki phir bhi agar upper diye gye ,ek bhi point kam na kre . vase tho ye kam krege kyoki mai apne experience se keh rha hu. Par phir bhi kai bar halat me ageh jukna hi padra hai tho ek baat mai apko bta de rha hu ki lakshya ko har hal mai pana hai , chahe kitni bhi muskile a jaye. Mere dost har mat manna . kyoki kuch bhi muskil nahi hai.